We empower Millennials & Gen Zs to build genuine connections-

across all relationships-family, friends, workplace and romantic-

without sacrificing who you are, with skills that actually work.

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If you're a Millennial or Gen Z feeling caught between creating authentic connections and honouring tradition, you're not alone.

While everyone else is chasing the next promotion or Instagram-worthy moment, you're quietly wondering:

✓ Why do my relationships feel so hard?

✓ When did making genuine friends become this complicated?

✓ Why does networking feel fake?

✓ Why can't I connect with my parents without conflict?

Here's the truth: You're not broken. You just need better relationship skills.

That's where SACRED® comes in.

We're Singapore's leading relationship education community, and we believe in something radical:

Teaching relationship skills BEFORE problems explode.

The SACRED Difference: Prevention Over Band-Aids

Most people wait until their relationships are bleeding before seeking help. We do something different. We teach you relationship skills before the crisis hits.

Think about it: You learned to drive before getting on the highway. You studied for exams before sitting them. Why would you wing it when it comes to the most important part of being human—your relationships?

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What Makes SACRED Different From Everyone Else

❌NOT Therapy

We're all about education and skill-building

❌NOT Generic Advice

We understand Singapore and Asia's unique cultural dynamics

❌NOT Just Romantic Focus

We cover ALL relationship types

❌NOT Surface-Level Tips

We build lasting frameworks that evolve with you

✅Preventive Approach

Build skills before problems explode

✅Millennial & Gen Z Focused

We get multi-generational challenges

✅Culturally Relevant

Navigating tradition while staying authentic

✅Holistic Ecosystem

Family, friends, work, romance-we cover it all

Start Your Journey

Choose your entry point:

The Quick Win

Free 7-Day Relationship Reset Challenge

Perfect if you're thinking: "Something needs to change, but I don't know where to start."

Coming soon

The Skill Builder

6-Month Relationship Skills Course

Perfect if you're thinking: "I'm serious about this—I want structure and support to make real, lasting changes."

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The Deep Dive

Private Relationship Consultation with Kavitha or Kester

Perfect if you're thinking: “I need an expert who gets my specific situation and can address my challenges at the root."

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Meet Your Non-Typical Relationship Experts,

Kester and Kavitha Shekar-Tay

Rebels-at-heart who broke away from societal expectations to build something authentic

They Rejected Hustle Culture Before It Was Cool: While their peers were climbing corporate ladders, Kester and Kavitha chose meaning over money, authenticity over approval. They understand what it's like to break away from society's definition of success.

They Built Resilience the Hard Way: Their marriage wasn't Instagram-perfect. They had intense conflicts that pushed them to understand the root causes of human suffering. They didn't pretend everything was fine—they did the work to heal themselves and their relationship.

They Created an Authentic Partnership: Instead of falling into traditional gender roles or functional relationship patterns, they built something based on true authenticity. They learned that individuality and deep connection can coexist—you don't have to lose yourself to love someone.

They Discovered What You're Seeking: That true healing happens in relationships, not isolation. That you can honour tradition while staying true to yourself. That meaningful work and deep relationships aren't mutually exclusive.

Their Professional Journey

As partners in life and work, they trained in various therapy and counselling methods to heal themselves first. When they focused on helping others, they worked with hundreds of clients and educated thousands more through public initiatives.

But here's what they discovered: Many people found healing in therapy but still struggled to build supportive relationships in everyday life. People craved deeper connections but lacked the practical tools to create them.

This insight birthed SACRED—because relationships, like all things sacred, require intention and nurturing, not just hope and luck.

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Co-led by Kavitha & Kester, SACRED® is a Singapore-based relationship education community that teaches Millennials and Gen Z how to overcome loneliness, resolve conflicts, and build secure connections. We help people master communication, boundaries, and emotional skills for healthier romantic, family, friend, and workplace relationships.